Things that hurt most. - Page 4

F0RBIDDEN · 10-06-2008, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by ElementGuitar

I hate being negative. I just have to stop being a puss and move on with life. Just need to figure out what makes me happy (minus the band) and go get it.

Also hate being negative. I'm such a pessimistic worrying faggot, I'm trying really hard lately to be positive and happy and generally be a pretty pleasant guy to be around because I hate being around negative people so I don't want other people to feel the same way about me... Dunno what it is that makes me this way but I really want to figure out how to just take life as it is and enjoy the fun parts and not worry about the bad, those are the kinds of people that are successful and have the closest friends and put smiles on people's faces when they enter the room. I want to be that guy dammit!

mortalis · 10-06-2008, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by De Profoundis

Urgh. Yeah, fucking shit in my life. Have an albums worth of quality material and not finding a drummer capable who is fucking interested and capable and then having the band break up, very likely not going to release it in any capacity...fucking drills me hard.

yeah, that's always fun.

The Yeti · 10-06-2008, 09:34 AM

I see your Vanessa and raise you an Isabella

After fucking her for a while it took me a long time to find pleasure in fucking any other chick

entwinedwithsickness · 10-06-2008, 09:38 AM

n00dz?

entwinedwithsickness · 10-06-2008, 09:46 AM

I'll pass.

oh and Vriend, you were wondering how I got the wound on my dick right? Blowjob gone wrong. Girl had 5 tongue piercings, I had over 30 drinks and was so numb I couldn't feel anything so she was trying hard and I was pushing back forcefully. It was really difficult to walk for 2 weeks.

Grindmasterflesh · 10-06-2008, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by entwinedwithsickness

I'll pass.

oh and Vriend, you were wondering how I got the wound on my dick right? Blowjob gone wrong. Girl had 5 tongue piercings, I had over 30 drinks and was so numb I couldn't feel anything so she was trying hard and I was pushing back forcefully. It was really difficult to walk for 2 weeks.

the story alone was worth it

Goaters · 10-06-2008, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by F0RBIDDEN

Also hate being negative. I'm such a pessimistic worrying faggot, I'm trying really hard lately to be positive and happy and generally be a pretty pleasant guy to be around because I hate being around negative people so I don't want other people to feel the same way about me... Dunno what it is that makes me this way but I really want to figure out how to just take life as it is and enjoy the fun parts and not worry about the bad, those are the kinds of people that are successful and have the closest friends and put smiles on people's faces when they enter the room. I want to be that guy dammit!

successful people don't just take life as it is.. they succeed(or achieve highly) mostly by seeing bad thing or opportunities and either correct them or use them to their advantage. success is just a word, there's no real universal guideline to measure it on.. one mans success is another mans walk in the park. people you described only exist through the help of synthetic drugs.. or spirituality and i'm willing to bet those who embrace life spiritualy don't have what you would call success. to enjoy life.. one needs to know and face the bad parts of life.. so they can measure the two up, it's only then that someone can REALLY enjoy life.
why would you want to force change upon yourself and mold yourself into so idealistic image just because you think it will make your life better and make change you into a better person?... sounds more like a faker to me.
this is just my philosophies and thoughts, I don't know what kinda dude you are in person, though i doubt your not a horrible person..
man, if you want to succeed at something.. then all you need is the will and the drive to reach that mark of success. If that's what you think will make you the most happy at the end of the day then that's all you need to aim for.. anything else should come naturally.. You don't have to go changing yourself and who you are to do that..
unless you're a complete worthless downer fuckwit.. which by the sounds of things your not.. then all of that should just be the difference between making up your mind and not.
i don't think you should be getting caught up on the idea that you need to change who you are.

Johnny-Skinless · 10-06-2008, 11:22 AM

You are right Goaters. This thread gets me down. It seems like some people here really let all life problems get them down bad, really bad because they seem so concerned with money, relationships and how are they viewed by other people. Personally, i try to avoid all that as much as possible and just do what i wanna do without hurting other people, of course. My philosophy is all about having a free mind, a strong attitude and all.

Nailed To Gold1 · 10-06-2008, 12:35 PM

missing Carcass 1 month ago in NY after driving to the venue.

Overall, missing all the amazing shows that came around NY back when I was a teenager.

And #1 thing that hurt the most: a bad trip.

LesserAnimal · 10-06-2008, 01:23 PM

*The* book on the human situation and love's relation to it:

Chilidem · 10-06-2008, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by LesserAnimal

*The* book on the human situation and love's relation to it:

You know of books for everything. Any good books to recommend for pottery making?

Szadou · 10-06-2008, 01:34 PM

I do.

Mol · 10-06-2008, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Chilidem

You know of books for everything. Any good books to recommend for pottery making?

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Originally Posted by Szadou

I do.

Somehow I knew it was coming but:

sativa cyborg · 10-06-2008, 02:11 PM

Success is subjective. Money is only success for those who dream of it; unfortunately the american "dream" of being numbed by material possessions and wealth is forced onto all of us through our social institutions.

Whether or not you acknowledge it, you're going to die someday. Don't be afraid, don't pity yourself and don't stop living... death is part of the natural cycle and should be celebrated the same way birth is. What am I getting to here? Life is short. You don't know when you're going to die, there are no guarantees and your life could stop at any minute.

The moral of the story? Dwelling on the past is wasted time. Chase what makes you feel alive and don't ever give up. You might have had some hard time recently but don't let it get you down, you might not have what you want, but at least you're breathing and capable of chasing your dreams. No matter where you end up, it's the journey that counts.

entwinedwithsickness · 10-06-2008, 02:24 PM

I just wake up every morning, look myself in the mirror and say "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough and doggone it, people like me."

Stuart Smalley FTW

LesserAnimal · 10-06-2008, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Chilidem

You know of books for everything. Any good books to recommend for pottery making?

Ahh, but this book is my very favorite in existence. Less than 120 pages, and is likely to get you interested in humanistic philosophy.

Fromm's explanation of the basic human situation is priceless and something we either take for granted, or are completely unaware of.

He elaborates on what he considers the "essence" of humanity in a book currently out of print called "The Heart of Man" which I also recommend heartily. He also discusses narcissism, and for the first time in print I believe, his necrophilia/biophilia character concepts.

I'll type up excerpts if anyone's interested.

teacup · 10-06-2008, 04:14 PM

Do it.

veshly · 10-06-2008, 06:55 PM

On the subject of life being too short:

What, if some day or night a demon were to steal after you in your loneliest loneliness and say to you: "This life as you now live it and have lived it, you will have to live once more and innumerable times more; and there will be nothing new in it, but every pain and every joy and every thought and sigh and everything unutterably small or great in your life will have to return to you, all in the same succession and sequence—even this spider and this moonlight between the trees, and even this moment and I myself. The eternal hourglass of existence is turned upside down again and again, and you with it, speck of dust!"

Would you not throw yourself down and gnash your teeth and curse the demon who spoke thus? Or have you once experienced a tremendous moment when you would have answered him: "You are a god and never have I heard anything more divine." If this thought gained possession of you, it would change you as you are or perhaps crush you. The question in each and every thing, "Do you desire this once more, and innumerable times more?" would lie upon your actions as the greatest weight. Or how well disposed would you have to become to yourself and to life to crave nothing more fervently than this ultimate eternal confirmation and seal? - Friedrich Nietszche, The Gay Science.

VilEffigy · 10-06-2008, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by LesserAnimal

Ahh, but this book is my very favorite in existence. Less than 120 pages, and is likely to get you interested in humanistic philosophy.

Fromm's explanation of the basic human situation is priceless and something we either take for granted, or are completely unaware of.

He elaborates on what he considers the "essence" of humanity in a book currently out of print called "The Heart of Man" which I also recommend heartily. He also discusses narcissism, and for the first time in print I believe, his necrophilia/biophilia character concepts.

I'll type up excerpts if anyone's interested.

I am. I believe I've read something from him previously, but I'm interested in the excerpts.

Raad · 10-06-2008, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by veshly

On the subject of life being too short:

What, if some day or night a demon were to steal after you in your loneliest loneliness and say to you: "This life as you now live it and have lived it, you will have to live once more and innumerable times more; and there will be nothing new in it, but every pain and every joy and every thought and sigh and everything unutterably small or great in your life will have to return to you, all in the same succession and sequence—even this spider and this moonlight between the trees, and even this moment and I myself. The eternal hourglass of existence is turned upside down again and again, and you with it, speck of dust!"

Would you not throw yourself down and gnash your teeth and curse the demon who spoke thus? Or have you once experienced a tremendous moment when you would have answered him: "You are a god and never have I heard anything more divine." If this thought gained possession of you, it would change you as you are or perhaps crush you. The question in each and every thing, "Do you desire this once more, and innumerable times more?" would lie upon your actions as the greatest weight. Or how well disposed would you have to become to yourself and to life to crave nothing more fervently than this ultimate eternal confirmation and seal? - Friedrich Nietszche, The Gay Science.

I just started reading Thus Spoke Zarathustra

Reincremation · 10-06-2008, 08:01 PM

his idea of eternal recurrence is certainly one of the strangest philosophical ideas that he supported, but an interesting one nonetheless.

teacup · 10-06-2008, 09:00 PM

ziel · 10-06-2008, 10:03 PM

Knowing you most likely just fucked up any chance that you had for a relationship with someone.

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10-06-2008, 09:34 AM	#93
The Yeti Registered User Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: The land of capitalist imperialism Posts: 914 Rep Power: 5	I see your Vanessa and raise you an Isabella After fucking her for a while it took me a long time to find pleasure in fucking any other chick

10-06-2008, 09:38 AM	#94
entwinedwithsickness almost human Join Date: May 2007 Location: East Meadow, NY Posts: 9,954 Rep Power: 15	n00dz?

10-06-2008, 09:46 AM	#95
entwinedwithsickness almost human Join Date: May 2007 Location: East Meadow, NY Posts: 9,954 Rep Power: 15	I'll pass. oh and Vriend, you were wondering how I got the wound on my dick right? Blowjob gone wrong. Girl had 5 tongue piercings, I had over 30 drinks and was so numb I couldn't feel anything so she was trying hard and I was pushing back forcefully. It was really difficult to walk for 2 weeks.

10-06-2008, 11:22 AM	#98
Johnny-Skinless Vlad Dracul Join Date: May 2004 Location: Hell Posts: 7,091 Rep Power: 17	You are right Goaters. This thread gets me down. It seems like some people here really let all life problems get them down bad, really bad because they seem so concerned with money, relationships and how are they viewed by other people. Personally, i try to avoid all that as much as possible and just do what i wanna do without hurting other people, of course. My philosophy is all about having a free mind, a strong attitude and all.

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Nailed To Gold1 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New York Posts: 1,713 Rep Power: 8	missing Carcass 1 month ago in NY after driving to the venue. Overall, missing all the amazing shows that came around NY back when I was a teenager. And #1 thing that hurt the most: a bad trip.

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LesserAnimal Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 4,740 Rep Power: 0	The book on the human situation and love's relation to it:

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Szadou #GlitterTearsCoterie Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 9,567 Rep Power: 17	I do.

10-06-2008, 02:11 PM	#104
sativa cyborg tr00 kvlt lol Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Assachusetts Posts: 541 Rep Power: 6	Success is subjective. Money is only success for those who dream of it; unfortunately the american "dream" of being numbed by material possessions and wealth is forced onto all of us through our social institutions. Whether or not you acknowledge it, you're going to die someday. Don't be afraid, don't pity yourself and don't stop living... death is part of the natural cycle and should be celebrated the same way birth is. What am I getting to here? Life is short. You don't know when you're going to die, there are no guarantees and your life could stop at any minute. The moral of the story? Dwelling on the past is wasted time. Chase what makes you feel alive and don't ever give up. You might have had some hard time recently but don't let it get you down, you might not have what you want, but at least you're breathing and capable of chasing your dreams. No matter where you end up, it's the journey that counts.

10-06-2008, 02:24 PM	#105
entwinedwithsickness almost human Join Date: May 2007 Location: East Meadow, NY Posts: 9,954 Rep Power: 15	I just wake up every morning, look myself in the mirror and say "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough and doggone it, people like me." Stuart Smalley FTW

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teacup Duck Master Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: San Francisco, CA Posts: 2,456 Rep Power: 0	Do it.

10-06-2008, 06:55 PM	#108
veshly Registered User Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Alberta. Posts: 1,016 Rep Power: 9	On the subject of life being too short: What, if some day or night a demon were to steal after you in your loneliest loneliness and say to you: "This life as you now live it and have lived it, you will have to live once more and innumerable times more; and there will be nothing new in it, but every pain and every joy and every thought and sigh and everything unutterably small or great in your life will have to return to you, all in the same succession and sequence—even this spider and this moonlight between the trees, and even this moment and I myself. The eternal hourglass of existence is turned upside down again and again, and you with it, speck of dust!" Would you not throw yourself down and gnash your teeth and curse the demon who spoke thus? Or have you once experienced a tremendous moment when you would have answered him: "You are a god and never have I heard anything more divine." If this thought gained possession of you, it would change you as you are or perhaps crush you. The question in each and every thing, "Do you desire this once more, and innumerable times more?" would lie upon your actions as the greatest weight. Or how well disposed would you have to become to yourself and to life to crave nothing more fervently than this ultimate eternal confirmation and seal? - Friedrich Nietszche, The Gay Science.

10-06-2008, 08:01 PM	#111
Reincremation deranged from bud Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 24,389 Rep Power: 34	his idea of eternal recurrence is certainly one of the strangest philosophical ideas that he supported, but an interesting one nonetheless.

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